All Throughout the Year
It's not news. I have cerebral palsy. It's a result of my wanting to come into the world too soon. I guess I found my mom's womb to be rather boring. (Was it the fact that there was no cable in there? Who knows?) So instead of waiting until my mid-December due date, I...
The Power of Perspective
For many years now, I have been fascinated by self-improvement. How can I move from where I am to where I want to be? How can I lose some of my negative habits? So I often find myself reading various articles on the topic of what makes people happy. The answer is...
Never Judge A Book…
Never judge a book by its cover. I have always liked that phrase. It reminds me that things aren't always what they seem, and it's a good response when people are making incorrect assumptions about me. I also appreciate the phrase because it is simple, direct, and...
Sometimes The Irony…
Good communication has always been very important to me. I suppose there are a number of reasons for that. First, communication has the ability to level the playing field. Sometimes, when people see my disability, they assume I am not intelligent or that I can't...
My Cup Runneth Over…
It's rare that I share my faith publicly. Not because I am not passionate about what I believe, but because I never want to push my beliefs on anyone. Too often I have had people make judgments or incorrect assumptions about what my life is like, and what I should...
Good Caregivers Rock! Bad Caregivers…
Once again, I am earnestly looking for compassionate, reliable caregivers these days. Sometimes I would be uncomfortable hiring people that I interview. Sometimes I offer the job to people and get turned down. That is all par for the course. But after pretty much...
I Won’t Stand For It!
To The Staff in the Office Where I Had An Appointment Last Week: I won't stand for it. I saw the look in each of your eyes as soon as I entered the office. The look of fear mixed with pity mixed with "I don't know what to do." I said hello and you all averted your...
Facing One of My Biggest Fears
Today I did something unexpected. I faced one of my biggest fears. James, a former caregiver who is filling in because I am so shorthanded right now, had to be out of town, and Samantha, another former caregiver helping me out, has been sidelined with sickness for a...
5 Things I Wish People Knew About Me
1. I embrace my disability. While it is true that if I had been given a choice at birth, this is not the life I would have chosen, for the most part, I feel blessed by my circumstances. It is only because I am a wheelchair user that I have been to do some of the...
What Inspiration Porn Isn’t
Do you want to know my definition of a pet peeve? It's pretty simple. A pet peeve is something annoying that people do that is totally unnecessary, in my opinion. There are several that get under my skin. People who don't think I am intelligent because I am a...